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When a spouse leaves the other spouse with no intention of returning, the abandoned spouse can be left confused, hurt, and uncertain about the future. As the spouse who was abandoned, you may hope in the beginning that the absent spouse will return, but eventually reality will set in. The situation is much worse when it involves children. At some point, divorce becomes your best option, if not your only option. But how does that work, especially if your spouse refuses to communicate with you or you have no idea where they reside?
When you have been deserted, an experienced New York divorce lawyer at The Levoritz Law Firm can guide you through every step in the divorce process. We will explain how abandonment divorce cases are handled under New York law and advise you on a path forward based upon the circumstances of your individual situation. Do not hesitate to contact us at (718) 942-4004 when you need help with a complex divorce.
How Does Abandonment Affect Divorce in New York?
What Qualifies as Spousal Abandonment Under New York Law?New York domestic relations law describes the fault-based ground of spousal abandonment.
- Left for a minimum of one year;
- Left without the consent of the other spouse;
- Was unjustified in doing so; and
- Did so with the intention of not resuming the marital relationship.
What Impact Does Abandonment Have on a New York Divorce?There are two types of abandonment: actual and constructive. Abandonment in its constructive form had its greatest impact on divorce prior to 2010. New York was the last standing state to adopt no-fault divorce. Before no-fault divorce’s adoption in 2010, constructive abandonment was often alleged. To argue constructive abandonment, a spouse would argue that one or both spouses refused to have sexual relations for a continuous period of one year or more. Now that no-fault divorces have been around for more than two decades, the need for constructive abandonment has dwindled. That said, actual abandonment continues to impact divorce––but again, that impact is not necessarily what you might think. Some would assume that if abandoned, the abandoned spouse would have an upper hand in the divorce, but that’s not always the case, at least not directly. Abandonment can affect divorce in regards to spousal support, child custody, inheritance, and property division.
Spousal SupportIn cases of abandonment, we have seen spouses wait longer than necessary to seek legal assistance in the hope that the other spouse will return home. Meanwhile, the abandoned spouse may fall into financial despair, because often, it is the primary income earner who abandons the home. Further, the abandoned spouse often does not know that they have a right to spousal support during this time of financial hardship. There is a misconception that spousal support in New York is awarded via divorce and becomes effective when the divorce is finalized. The latter is actually spousal maintenance. Spouses, even if not separated, can seek a spousal support award through family court under the Family Court Act § 412 when, while still married, the other spouse fails to meet their support obligations. When the abandoned spouse invokes abandonment as the cause for the divorce (marital fault), the abandoned spouse will not automatically receive spousal maintenance, nor will the amount of spousal maintenance increase as a way to punish the deserter. That said, other factors used in the calculation of spousal maintenance may have been affected by the abandonment, and they could impact spousal maintenance. For example, if the abandoned spouse’s lifetime earning capacity was reduced or lost because of delayed education, training, employment, or other career opportunities, and this was due to the abandonment, then it could have an incidental impact on the issuance and amount of spousal maintenance.
InheritanceA spouse who has abandoned the other spouse can be disqualified as a surviving spouse for inheritance purposes under Estates, Powers and Trusts Law § 5-1.2. If you are divorced, you are automatically disqualified, but the same is true if you are the spouse who deserted the other spouse. Abandonment as a disqualifier, however, has been disputed and challenged. So, it’s important to keep this in mind if you are the abandoned spouse and you don’t want your assets to go to your spouse should you die unexpectedly.
Division of Marital PropertyYou may hear from people that filing for divorce on the grounds of abandonment can help you get more out of a settlement. This assumes you could receive more money and/or property than what you would normally have received through the equitable distribution of marital property. Under the Equitable Distribution Law in New York, the court, in an action for divorce, must determine the respective rights of the parties in their separate or marital property, and must provide for the disposition thereof. The Equitable Distribution Law further provides that marital property must be distributed equitably between the parties, considering the circumstances of the case and of the respective parties. However, equitable distribution of marital property does not necessarily mean equal distribution. Therefore, obtaining a greater share of marital property will not necessarily result just because one spouse has abandoned the other. This would be possible only where you can prove that your spouse engaged in marital misconduct that was egregious and unconscionable. For example, in Blickstein v. Blickstein, the Second Department reversed a Nassau County trial decision where the court considered marital fault and awarded the wife sixty percent of the assets. The Court held that:
Is Abandonment as a Ground for Divorce Still Relevant in New York?As you can see from above, when a spouse is abandoned, the divorce case can get quite complex and nuanced. It may seem easier to file for a no-fault divorce. But therein lies the problem: in a no-fault divorce, the divorce cannot be finalized unless all matters related to spousal maintenance, child support, child custody, or division of property are settled. Given the nature of many abandonment cases, where communication is hard, getting those things settled can be just as difficult, if not impossible. An experienced New York lawyer for abandonment can successfully guide you through a complex divorce and ensure your rights and interests are upheld Call us today at (718) 942-4004 to arrange a consultation with an experienced Manhattan divorce attorney. Learn How We Can Help
How Do I File for Abandonment in New York?
Our Knowledgeable Attorney Will Guide You through the ProcessTo file for divorce in New York based on abandonment, as with any divorce, you must first meet residency requirements. You then file your paperwork with the Supreme Court of the State of New York in your county of residence. In your paperwork, you will indicate that you are filing on abandonment grounds. Once the appropriate paperwork is filed with the court, you must have your spouse served with the divorce papers. If your spouse receives the divorce paperwork by “personal” (i.e., in your hands) delivery, he or she has 20 days to respond. If your spouse is served by any other means (i.e., left with someone of suitable age and mind in your household, by certified mail, or by publication) he or she has 30 days to respond. If the spouse defaults, which means he or she does not respond, the divorce process continues without their input.
How Can I Serve My Spouse with Divorce Papers if I Do Not Know Where They Are?If you have made a diligent effort to locate your spouse but have been unsuccessful, you can petition the court for a divorce by publication. If the court agrees that your efforts were made in good faith and you demonstrate that you thoroughly attempted to locate your spouse, it may approve your petition, however, this type of service is disfavored by courts and will usually only be used as a last resort. The process for a divorce by publication involves serving your spouse with the paperwork through a notice in a publication:
- You post a notice in a newspaper or another publication that is most likely to give notice to your spouse.
- Notices must be published once a week for three weeks in a row.
- If after a three-week period your spouse does not respond, the divorce proceedings may continue.
Our Lawyer for Abandonment Answers Frequently Asked QuestionsDivorcing on the grounds of abandonment can be confusing. Following are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions we get about the process.
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Take the First Step to Dissolve Your Marriage with Skilled Legal Help
Depending on your circumstances, abandonment may be the best ground for divorce. To be successful, however, supporting your claim is essential. That takes a thorough understanding of the law, fact-finding and investigative skills, and the ability to put it all together in a solid, well-documented complaint. That, in turn, takes resources. At The Levoritz Law Firm, we employ our resources to your benefit. We know how to find answers and craft smart legal arguments. We are in this business because we care and have developed our resources because of it.
Yonatan Levoritz, our divorce lawyer for abandonment, is a highly skilled practitioner of matrimonial law. Under his guidance, we are not afraid to take on the toughest and most complex divorce cases. In fact, the successful outcomes we obtain for our clients are the result of the insight gained from our extensive and varied experience in New York divorce law.
We know that it hurts to be deserted by your spouse. If you have come home and they are gone, with no explanation, it can be an extremely trying and traumatic experience. While we cannot change what has happened to you, we can help you through it. If you wish to divorce, we will clearly outline your legal options and advise on whether it makes the most sense in your situation to file for divorce based on abandonment.
Getting your life back and being able to move on is critical after a spouse has deserted you. Contact The Levoritz Law Firm today at (718) 942-4004 to arrange a time to speak with a compassionate and knowledgeable divorce attorney who will carefully answer your questions and address your concerns about pursuing divorce after abandonment.